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... I have been investigating various options in assisted living for my next trick in my Aging as Ungracefully As Possible Extravaganza[1], and by gummy those things are expensive. Hoo.

Currently, I am comfortable-ish. Through assistance from my parents, I do not have a mortgage or a car payment. Both my home and my car are old and continuing to age, but at the moment all is pretty functional, and I have sufficient resources to put in a new water heater (last year) or new tires (this year), as well as cover regular monthly expenses, and allow myself the expense of owning cats (oy).

I am even feeling sufficiently beforehand with the world[2] this year that I am going to treat myself to new glasses this year also. This may seem like a small expense, but my lenses are incredibly expensive. My last new ones were in 2015 (happened more often when I was still working), and since then I moved the lenses to new frames to eke out the cost. I never worry about sales on frames because that is the least of the cost.

But, should I last long enough to need assisted living (meals cooked and cleaned up; laundry of bed linens and towels; light housecleaning in suite; lightbulbs sorted as needed; etc), I do not have enough to pay for it all - not even in the least expensive option's bachelor suite. And, only the more expensive places take pets. And, how are two outdoor enthusiasts going to adapt to basically a large bedroom with bathroom as their stomping grounds. I will be evicted for howling cats. Argh.

So. Do not be crazy with your retirement money. General costs continue to rise; and there is always your future needs turning out to be more needy to put a cramp in your splurging.[3]

[1] - sort of like the fall fair: The AUAPE! Ride the rides! See the cows! Vote for your favourite pie!
[2] - see your Georgette Heyer for translation
[3] - books. I like books
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So. We went to Radium, then to Calgary, then to Okotoks, then to Canmore, then to Fairmont, then to home.

What with a CPAP, water for the CPAP, a stool to help me climb into bed, a walker for tough bits, an tub mat so I won't fall down in the tub (assuming I can climb into it), some clothes, and all my meds, lugging all that crap in and out of hotels every day is too much.

My mother is a very restless person. She and Dad used to travel a lot - and they loved it, and I loved that they loved it. I like my home. I like my comforts, and that I have things arranged so that I don't have to face my inability to do things every time I want to do things. Example: I'm short. I have a shallow bed. I can get in and out of bed at any moment. I can use the bed to put on socks and similar. The current fashion of hotel beds that are so high that even with my fancy stool with a steadying handle, getting into these beds hurts my knees and freaks me out. Bathtubs are similarly high. My tub has bars so that I can hang on and be not afraid. I also use a tub mat because bath tub bottoms are slick like a very slick malevolent thing.

And I have cats at home.

So. We got to see some family, and that is always nice. And we saw some interesting places: the Rockies are worth seeing a lot, in lots of parts of the Rockies. The hot springs (Radium, Fairmont) are excellent. Sinclair Canyon is worth the trip, and blah blah blah.

My lack of mobility is chaffing for my Mom. She wants to go and do and see and etc. My Mom doesn't give me a hard time, or express impatience, or anything like that. She is just naturally restless and needs constant external activity.

And I haven't even talked about the steady restaurant food and the digestive disturbance. Ugh.

I am so glad to be home.
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We keep getting snow. Last night was another 8 to 10 centimeters. We're getting into our fifth straight month of the ground being covered by at least a half a meter (currently a meter or more). When Lorne shovels, the heaps at the side of the driveway are taller than he is (6 feets). It has thawed and refrozen so many times there is strata on the roof. I have seen a Northern Flicker pecking away at it for bugs. Or twigs. Or because a flicker's gotta peck something.

I know it's boring to listen to whining, but I hate this snow so much. Actually, it isn't just this snow in particular - all snow is abominable. Hah.

Blizzard.

Jan. 4th, 2009 07:08 pm
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And not in the good ice creamy way.

It has been snowing for the last hour - howling straight down snow.  Bus routes are closed all over the lowermainland.  Buses are stuck on their routes all over the lowermainland.  The sea level can't rise because we are getting all that extra water as snow.  Argh.

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